The Best Texts to Send After a First Date

Okay so you’ve made it through the first date small talk, but what should you do next? Here’s a list of acceptable “after the first date” texts to get some conversation going.

  1. Get straight to the point

No funny business, you had a lot of fun, you want to do it again, and you want to start a conversation.

I had a lot of fun with you last night, we should do it again sometime!” Thanks for last night, Are you free again next weekend?

2. Safety first

You caring about their well-being is a great conversation starter!


I had a lot of fun tonight, text me when you get home so I know youre safe! Hey, just checking that you made it home okay!

3. Simple yet effective

A quick little “what’s up?” text is the perfect way to get the ball rolling!


Hey, just wanted to check in and see how your day is. Good morning! What do you have got planned today?

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